i don't think anyone is questioning your knowledge or integrity. but by your own admission you're "fed up" (my paraphrase from #4348, 4369 & 4372). i tried for 45 years to reform the residential construction business, and i had to be where i wanted regardless of anyone else on the road.
well, i didn't, and it ate up a part of me trying. i'm grateful to be off the hamster wheel now, and anytime i lament not having 'things', i realize i have the most precious gift of all - time. one that $$$ cannot buy.
and there's many more of "them" than there are of me. or you. it's so easy now to look back and see the warning signs i didn't have time to heed. i'm sure you will make the correct decision for your circumstances.