Still have issues with notice not being posted

[Chariots of Fire]

I'm still not seeing the responses to my posts even though it gives me a notice at the top of the page that there is one.  Sometimes the response is just a heart image.  Other times; nothing.  Is there something I need to fix?  It doesn't happen to all responses, just some.  At other times they show up days later.  Could use your help.

[stitchdup]

those are the responses. its like the facebook likes stuff. I;ll thank you for your post and you should get a trophy as the response.