Good Luck to you and your wife Jim
I too have been cutting back, but I still haven't quit yet. I quit dope and drinking with no problems and never went back. But smoking is hard to give up. If any young guys are reading this please don't ever start, and if you do smoke quit now because it won't get easier when you are older. Of all the things I've done in my life, this has been the dumbest and most destructive to me.