but seriously, Kevin. if i may call you "Kevin". these 2 (you Know the other one) threads reminds me of a story .....
" once upon a time there was a Bull and a Calf (little bull? bullette?) anyway, sitting on top of a hill watching a whole herd of Cows graze in the pasture below.
being healthy and young, the Calf says: 'let's run right down there and make love to one o' them Cows!'
to which the old Bull responds: 'let's walk down, and make love to them ALL.'"
well, you may wonder why i bring up this rather obtuse reference. or not. but i'll share with you this: i don't think anyone will put you down unless you allow them. standing up for yourself is an admirable quality and will take you far in life.
but, and we have all experienced the effervescence of youth, it is in your delivery that i believe is causing folks to take umbrage. we're all on this forum because of a common interest. give people a break and they'll most likely reciprocate.
if someone finds something negative to say about your model, take it from where it comes. it could even be a valid criticism but if it is delivered harshly you may not be receptive to the words.
think about it.
and don't go drinking with any Marines. that's not necessarily positive role modeling.