OT: Sad news for those who have been following along...

[pharr7226]

My condolences. I will pray for you and your family.

[my80malibu]

Darin, please let me offer my sympathy on the loss of your wife. take care my prayers are also with you.

[Romell R]

What Hope for our dead loved ones

After sin and death entered the world, God revealed that it was his purpose that the dead be restored to life by means of a resurrection. Thus the Bible explains: “Abraham . . . reckoned that God was able to raise [his son Isaac] up even from the dead.” (Hebrews 11:17-19) Abraham’s confidence was not misplaced, for the Bible says of the Almighty: “He is a God, not of the dead, but of the living, for they are all living to him.”—Luke 20:37, 38.

Yes, Almighty God has not only the power but also the desire to resurrect persons whom he chooses. Jesus Christ himself said: “Do not marvel at this, because the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear his voice and come out.”—John 5:28, 29; Acts 24:15.

Not long after saying this, Jesus met a funeral procession coming out of the Israelite city of Nain. The dead young man was the only child of a widow. On seeing her extreme grief, Jesus was moved with pity. So, addressing the corpse, he commanded: “Young man, I say to you, Get up!” And the man sat up, and Jesus gave him to his mother.—Luke 7:11-17.

As in the case of that widow, there was also great ecstasy when Jesus visited the home of Jairus, a presiding officer of the Jewish synagogue. His 12-year-old daughter had died. But when Jesus arrived at Jairus’ home, he went over to the dead child and said: “Girl, get up!” And she did!—Luke 8:40-56.

Later, Jesus’ friend Lazarus died. When Jesus arrived at his home, Lazarus had been dead for four days. Although deeply grieved, his sister Martha expressed hope, saying: “I know he will rise in the resurrection on the last day.” But Jesus went to the tomb, ordered the stone to be removed, and called: “Lazarus, come on out!” And he did!—John 11:11-44.

Now think about this: What was Lazarus’ condition during those four days he was dead? Lazarus did not say anything about being in a heaven of bliss or a hell of torment, which surely he would have done if he had been there. No, Lazarus was completely unconscious in death and would have remained so until “the resurrection on the last day” if Jesus had not then restored him to life.

It is true that these miracles of Jesus were of only temporary benefit, since those that he resurrected died again. However, he gave proof 1,900 years ago that, with God’s power, the dead really can live again! So by his miracles Jesus showed on a small scale what will take place on earth under the Kingdom of God.

Darin Jehovah God holds out this grand opertunity for us all to be reunited with our dead loved ones again here on earth the way we remember them. My familys heart goes out to yours stay strong my brother.

[charlie8575]

Darin,

Recently, I have begun to date someone who has become very special to me, and like Bobbi, although for different reasons, also has very fragile health.

And like your beloved wife, I have also found that what is missing in physical robustness is more than made up for in mental and emotional toughness. I find her resilience inspiring everyday. I know you found Bobbi's the same way, and now, after the last two months with my lady, I more fully understand why. It also makes you understand why it is so very important to treasure those closest to you- for surely one day, and the wisest knows not when, death, the common leveler of all human greatness, will reduce us to the same state; and for some, it will be entirely too soon.

Bobbi's suffering and pain are over, although her physical presence will be missed, and it is difficult to deal with its absence, remember that in spirt and in the energy she had, she will always be with you. The energy of the human spirit, like other forms of energy, can never be destroyed- it only re-manifests itself in a different manner.

In the memorial service the Masons have for a departed Brother, there is one line that I have found brings some comfort to all people- "death is not a journey to the grave, but through the grave."

Remember that- the story has not ended, merely a new chapter begun.

In the meantime, you have the support of friends, loved ones and your fellow modelers. Please accept my sincerest and most heartfelt condolences over what I know is a very difficult loss for you. I, with all of us, stand by you.

Charlie Larkin

[mopar01lee]

Sorry to hear about your great loss, My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family..

sad days ... Davin

[Jon Cole]

Darin,

Though I posted my sympathy on your Facebook, I just wanted to again express my sorrow for your loss. Though not sudden, it must still be one of the most difficult events in your life. Hope you find comfort in your family and friends as you move through this experience. Peace.

[iBorg]

Your datling wife Bobbi may be gone physically but may she live on in your heart and the spirits of your children.

I pray in the comning days you find peace and comfort in the love you share.

[Danny Lectro]

Darin,

Words seem so useless at a time like this. Just know that you have my deepest sympathy.

[kenb]

Darin, my most deepest sincere sympathy to you and your family. Hang in there buddy.

Ken

[imatt88]

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[Guest]

Darin, I am sincerely sorry for your loss. I will be praying for you and your family, and will take this to our little church as well.

Father, I come before you Lord, and ask that you give peace and comfort right now to Darin and his family as they grieve the loss of his wife. afill their hearts with your love, peace and comfort. Reach out to each of them in a personal way in their hour of need. I pray they will have a real sense of knowing she is with you right now in heaven, not just a hope of it, but really sense she is there right now. Be with them in the preperations they need to so, and in the details to follow. Bless them all with your deep abiding love. In the name of our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ, Amen.

Darin, if you ever need to talk, my pm box is open.

[Peter Lombardo]

So sorry to hear this......just be thankful that you knew great love and gave great love. I am sorry for your loss. You and Bobbi know you gave your best, and that was all you could do.