Charlie, can you PM me a few pieces of general info? 1. Can you tell me what your buddy's approximate location (like cross streets) is in Red Hook? 2. The same regarding your lady friend? From those two, I can give you more detailed directions on how to get from Point 1 to Point 2. Right off the bat, I can tell you that there are only two subway lines, which operate from the same stations in Red Hook (the G and F trains from Carroll Street and Smith-9th St., the F is the only one running to Midwood.) I'll also be able to give you some information on bars, restaurants, etc,