G. We absolutely must be brothers from different mothers, or, two pours from the same mold, ole buddy. Your post stated precisely exactly how I view the question, the 'issue,' and the subject. Precisely. And, exactly. As though we've lived and worn the same life.
I guess that shouldn't be much of a surprise. Every time we compare notes, swap lies, and spin yarns . . . we both know the storylines and the punch lines. Amazing how similar the experiences of two dudes from different parts of the country.
But then, that's the whole thing about the Brotherhood . . .