My question is, when is pending long enough, when i put things on trade, and people say there interested, so you put pending, how long do you hold it for the person, ive got a couple items still pending from around christmas, and they still say they want the item, there still looking for something to trade for the item. I wont mention names here, its not about that, its about how long should i wait till i move to the next person in line.