No you are not wrong when askesd, thats when its ok, but going around and telling people they should do this or that to there model is not , unless they asked.
And I agree with that too, but not everyone builds like you do or, anyone else does, some dont care about the little things, build they way you do and want to, and let everyone build the way they want to.
I do, and I dont care how you or anyone else builds THEIR kits, and I dont want people caring how I build MY kits, if you have idea's or suggestions or I ask, fine let me hear them, but dont expect me or everyone to feel that the have to build it or do things being suggested.
Not everyone wants to build to get everything down to the right detail done right.