Jürgen M. Posted March 13, 2023 Author Posted March 13, 2023 No offence but keeping this Item Up for so Long shows me that there seem to be some people in the forum who don't want to forgive. And I do not want to be somewhere I'm not tolerated even if it's maybe just a minority of users.
stitchdup Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 I think you are worrying about nothing Jurgen, it may be that some of the humour doesn't translate as intended. 5 minutes ago, Jürgen M. said: No offence but keeping this Item Up for so Long shows me that there seem to be some people in the forum who don't want to forgive. And I do not want to be somewhere I'm not tolerated even if it's maybe just a minority of users.
Jürgen M. Posted March 13, 2023 Author Posted March 13, 2023 OK, maybe. I didn't want to offend anyone, especially not the ones who understand and and support me! Thanks for that by the way! I was just amazed that the whole thing was such a big deal, especially after I had honestly appologized! I'm willing to start over, wiser than before, if the offended are willing to forgive and forget. Everyone makes mistakes! It's part of being human!
JollySipper Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 22 minutes ago, Jürgen M. said: nobody of the offended will be reminded of the stupid guy who dared to make a mistake in their forum of faultlessness! Jurgen, this is THE MOST friendly, forgiving, and welcoming forum EVER! If they'll let me hang out here, then I'm positive that you are more than welcome to stay.......
Ace-Garageguy Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 29 minutes ago, Jürgen M. said: That's anyone's right not wanting to have anymore to do with me. Maybe it would then be best for me just to leave the forum so noone has to live in fear of hijacks as you wish to call it. It seems as though you may have misunderstood what I said. There is NO PROBLEM. As others have said, welcome. 1
StevenGuthmiller Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 (edited) 50 minutes ago, Jürgen M. said: That's anyone's right not wanting to have anymore to do with me. Maybe it would then be best for me just to leave the forum so noone has to live in fear of hijacks as you wish to call it. Your admin may then delete all my posts and nobody of the offended will be reminded of the stupid guy who dared to make a mistake in their forum of faultlessness! Your choice! You’re taking this a little too personally Juergen. As Bill said, it’s not a personal thing against you. If you stick around for a while, you’ll quickly discover that these types of discussions morph into other avenues very quickly. Nobody is directing any of this at you. It’s just become a general discussion about a common phenomena. Besides, anybody on this board that tells you that they’ve never added their 2 cents at some point where it didn’t belong, is blowing smoke up your backside. You just have to be like a duck and let it roll off of your back. Either that, or if it’s really bothering you, just send the admins a PM and ask them to lock the thread. They’ll be more than happy to oblige. Seriously Jurgen, we are all happy to have you here. You just have to learn to roll with the punches. Steve Edited March 13, 2023 by StevenGuthmiller 2
Rattlecan Dan Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 O.K. That does it! I quit! I'm totally disgusted with the lot of you! I'm packing up my rattlecans, and moving on! I won't be a part of any organization that would have me for a member. Oh I didn't know you were listening. Just practicing for when I screw up. Just kidding my friends. LOL 1
Tcoat Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 (edited) 1 hour ago, Jürgen M. said: That's anyone's right not wanting to have anymore to do with me. Maybe it would then be best for me just to leave the forum so noone has to live in fear of hijacks as you wish to call it. Your admin may then delete all my posts and nobody of the offended will be reminded of the stupid guy who dared to make a mistake in their forum of faultlessness! Your choice! You misunderstood Ace. He was not saying that nobody wanted anything to do with you nor your posts but that the topic of discussion here has moved on past your original error (whatever that actually was since I never bothered to look). EDIT: OH I made the rookie mistake of not checking for a second page before posting and now this looks silly! What the guys above me said. Edited March 13, 2023 by Tcoat 1
OldNYJim Posted March 13, 2023 Posted March 13, 2023 1 hour ago, Jürgen M. said: Anything else I can do? Post lots of builds and enjoy your stay! ?? 3
StevenGuthmiller Posted March 14, 2023 Posted March 14, 2023 2 hours ago, CabDriver said: Post lots of builds and enjoy your stay! ?? Yes, don’t let one little kerfuffle bother you. It probably won’t be your last Steve 1
David G. Posted March 14, 2023 Posted March 14, 2023 15 hours ago, Jürgen M. said: That's anyone's right not wanting to have anymore to do with me. Maybe it would then be best for me just to leave the forum so noone has to live in fear of hijacks as you wish to call it. Your admin may then delete all my posts and nobody of the offended will be reminded of the stupid guy who dared to make a mistake in their forum of faultlessness! Your choice! No worries Jürgen! There are a lot of Americans in this community and we do tend to go on about things, long past the point of reason sometimes. (He says as he makes his own contribution! ) This discussion has crossed into that zone, taken on a life of its own, and left you behind. It's no longer about you Jürgen, there's no need to take any of it personally. Just hang on and enjoy the ride, if you're so inclined. BTW, any of you can feel free to post photos to any of my threads as long as they're generally related to the subject matter. Thanks and regards to All, David G. 4
StevenGuthmiller Posted March 14, 2023 Posted March 14, 2023 38 minutes ago, David G. said: BTW, any of you can feel free to post photos to any of my threads as long as they're generally related to the subject matter. I concur. Steve 2
ctruss53 Posted March 14, 2023 Posted March 14, 2023 (edited) Jurgen, welcome. And if you are going to hang around on here one thing I have learned is you need to rise above the trolls. No matter what you do or say, someone is going to tell you that you are doing it wrong. If they take it too far, there is an ignore button. I have a few people that were trolling me on ignore. My experience on the forum has been great ever since. I see a lot of replies about thread hijacking. I'll approach this a little more constructively than others have. I guess thread hijacking is something to watch out for. Keep a thread on topic. If you want to talk about something else, start another thread. There are no limits to the number of threads you can start. Plus if you start your own thread, then you have a place to talk about the thing you want to talk about and everyone that replies is there to talk about that thing you want to discuss. It's a win win situation. Have fun. Ask questions. Show off your builds in the right areas. And deal with the trolls by using that ignore button. And again. Welcome Edited March 14, 2023 by ctruss53 3
Joe Nunes Posted March 14, 2023 Posted March 14, 2023 2 hours ago, Jürgen M. said: Everything's fine guys, thanks! ? That's the spirit! ? Joe 1
Biggu Posted March 16, 2023 Posted March 16, 2023 What impressed me, was , ....that Jurgen, had the strength to apologize for his excitement ( as to which I took it for ) apologizing these days is something that rarely happens... I have been on the site for a while and have been quietly slinking around and yes , you guys are great and this is a friendly place to hang out and Jurgen will be just fine. I thought it was cool that he thought enough of it, .... all, his 'eagerness' , and all the comments to sit back and take the time to reflect... that was kind of cool.... yeah, we all make mistakes and piss people off, I do it all the time ?, and I am not all koom by ya, but this whole thread, has impressed me, everything will be just great, they are just models , and life is short... all good stuff, enjoyable read... Jeff 4 1
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