I have been burned twice on trades, one which was on the second trade with the same member. It's gonna happen. The good thing that came out of this is members will be more careful about who they trade with. The bad thing is that new members will be looked upon with mistrust. This has been said before, but if a new member is not willing to send first to build trust then they are probably looking for free kits. It takes time to build trust. That said, life goes on and karma always evens things out.