I get flocking from Rick at Scale Dreams. There's about 40 colors to choosed from. I paint the area to be flocked after it dries I brush on Elmers glue (the white stuff) over the area. While the glue is still wet, I sprinkle on the flocking. I put the flocking in a strainer and push it through with a finger. Seems to work better that way. After a coat is down, I tamp it lightly with a finger. Let it dry. Oh yeah - put whatever you're going to flock on a clean sheet of paper. After drying, shake the excess onto the paper, kinda fold the paper to make a chute and put the excess back into the container.
Rick (Scale Dreams) sells Ken's Fuzzi Fur. It comes in small plastic containers (tubes). I like that better than Model Car Garage that sells it in little baggies.
Search for flocking on this forum. I'm sure somebody has done something with pictures.
Auto World used to sell the chrome tape as well as other colors. I found some somewhere recently, but usually use Bare Metal Foil (BMF). There's probably a post somewhere here about BMF too.
I'll get the source for the tape when I go out to the shop Later.