Feel your pain Russ you have my condolences, lost my dad on 9/9/17 he'd just gotten back home and we were supposed to get together later in the week. Two things that really stink my birthday is 2/9, we had a family service 9/14 Valentine's was a favorite of his and we buried him 9/24 day of moms birthday is 11/24. Got all but my sister. He was 67 1/2 pushing to 70 to retire?