Another one I read somewhere years ago. A woman saw their manager or someone like that driving their van at a NJ rest stop. Stopped him and said "I think it's so nice to see you looking after those retarded men." Another one I heard (from someone in the music biz) they were in the van in some town in Massachusetts or somewhere. waiting to leave the morning after a gig and the had to wait until Joey had to touch every white picket fence (apparently, he had really bad OCD, among other things).