I must say, George, in virtually every respect, she sounds like a dream come true! The experiences of myself and my friends is that very few of the women of my generation (I'm 35,) are tolerant or accepting of their mates' hobbies or interests, and it's very discouraging- yet, we "have" to be tolerant of their shopping, whining, screaming, and other women's lib-gone-bad drama. Fortunately, there are exceptions (Michele here on this board comes immediately to mind, not only as an exception but as someone who plays along, which is almost unheard of,) but they're very rare. The Ex, as stated before, was indifferent, which I suppose beats hostility.
Um....does she have any like-minded younger cousins or nieces??
Charlie Larkin