"Too many" is relative. Too many to build in a life time? Too many to fit into the space you have? Too many to justify? Too many to remember what you have? What does SHE mean? Ask her how many of X(purses, shoes, etc etc) she has, and then if that is too many. Let's face it, all we really need is food, water, sleep, shelter, the rest is all bonus anyway. Most of us on here have more kits than we will build....as kits. BUT, they are not there simply to be built. They are that collectors item you were looking for, that kit that took you back to your childhood so you bought it again, they represent a parts yard, trade fodder, future projects, etc etc.. As long as they do not prevent you from other obligations like making the mortgage, paying the bills, etc. and you enjoy the hobby, then so be it. As my dad would say, you don't have to feed them........but you do the wife.