KWT Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 A week ago today, 12:30 am, I received a phone call that I never dreamed of but have feared since my son started driving. He hit a slick spot on an old country road and slid driver's door first into a tree. He was found by a passerby, who called in the crash. The rescue squad cut him out of the truck and they transported him to trauma CCU in Nashville. He suffered several fractures to his face and skull, suffered from brain bleeding, and damage to his left eye, but miraculously no injuries from the neck down. He has been on a trach ventilator and basically asleep since. They reconstructed his face and skull on Monday. Wired his mouth shut, and have started weening him off the ventilator alittle bit at a time. Today he was sat on the side of the bed and followed a few basic commands, like touch my hand, touch your nose, give me a thumbs up... And today was the first time he opened his right eye while I was in there... Afterwards I had a little break down. Such small things that are taken for granted, is such a big deal in our world right now. They are talking about transferring him to a 1st tier rehab facility by the weekend. Oh how far he's come in a week, but oh how far he has to go. I've dealt with several things in life, but nothing has beat me up like this. An emotional rollercoaster is the absolute only way to describe this week. And we're looking at a couple of months from here at the very least. But hes tough and stubborn and a fighter... By the grace of the Lord, he's headed in the right direction.
Ace-Garageguy Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 That's rough. Rough beyond words. You have my sincere best wishes. It sounds like he'll make it just fine, but as you say, it'll take time ...and a lot of caring from everyone around him.
iamsuperdan Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Whoa. I cannot imagine what you must have been going through over the past week. My thoughts are with you my friend.
StevenGuthmiller Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Hang in there Jeremy. You always have to remember that it could have been much worse. Your son will heal & will remain in your life. Never forget what the alternative may have been. Steve
NYLIBUD Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 I'm very sorry this terrible event has happened to you and your family.But It sounds as if your son is strong..I'm not a very religious person,but I pray that he will make a full recovery.It will take time and patience.Try to be strong for your son.
Lordmodelbuilder Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Lots of positive healing thoughts! Take care of yourself too.
High octane Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Sorry to hear the bad news Jeremy, and I hope and pray for your son's full recovery.
Dave Ambrose Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 I’m so sorry you’re going through this. We love our children more than anything else in this world. You’ll find a way through. Prayers for both you and your son. Take care of yourself and don’t forget you have friends here when you need them.
landman Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 4 hours ago, Ace-Garageguy said: That's rough. Rough beyond words. You have my sincere best wishes. It sounds like he'll make it just fine, but as you say, it'll take time ...and a lot of caring from everyone around him. Couldn’t have said it better. Stand by him.
KWT Posted October 11, 2018 Author Posted October 11, 2018 When I started typing last night, it was more or less just to vent. I've not had the chance to get it all out. It helped, and now reading what has been added is all amazing and very appreciated! Thank you all for the prayers, kind words and well wishes!
Belugawrx Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Wishing you and your family all the best, and a speedy recovery for your son.
crazyjim Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family, Jeremy.
cobraman Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Man, that's terrible. I hope he has a full and speedy recovery.
Snake45 Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Very sad to hear. Will keep your son in our prayers. God Bless.
oldnslow Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 (edited) I know your pain , my son totaled his car about 25 years ago when he was 17 . The feeling , seeing your child in that condition , is almost unbearable . You and your son are in our prayers for a complete and short recovery . Edited October 11, 2018 by oldnslow
espo Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 I will be holding your son and your family in prayer.
1930fordpickup Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Prayers for son and your family Jeremy. He is moving in this short time so that is a very good thing.
stavanzer Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 I will say a prayer for him as well. My son is 22, and trying out life. Turns out THIS is the hardest age to parent them. Keep the Faith, Brother!
KWT Posted October 11, 2018 Author Posted October 11, 2018 I thank you all... I will give an update for today. When I got to his room this morning his eye was open. I talked to him. He shook his head yes and no. I told him I loved him... He fist bumped me. Dear old dad had a moment.
martinfan5 Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 (edited) I dont even know what to say , as I parent I never want to have to go through this , I wish your son the best in his recovery and to you Jeremy, stay strong, you and your family will get through this. Edited October 11, 2018 by martinfan5
Tom Geiger Posted October 11, 2018 Posted October 11, 2018 Jeremy, my very best wishes and prayers to your son and family! A friend of mine recently lost his grandson in a similar incident. You may have a long road of recovery ahead, but you and your son will get through this!
Oldcarfan27 Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 My prayers for his full and complete recovery.
slusher Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 God be with you Jeremy and your son and family. He is young that is on his side. I feel for you my thoughts and prayers are with you... 1
Classicgas Posted October 12, 2018 Posted October 12, 2018 Prayers lifted for your son and for the family. 1
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